Being Understood

Effective Communication Practices for 2008

Over the past few weeks, I've read nearly a dozen books on leadership, communication and change as I prepare to lead two new workshops. My creative process seems to demand that I read up on the subject, just to make sure I haven't missed some new and breathtaking idea that will render my current knowledge obsolete. Though I discovered nothing that will rearrange life as I know it, I did spot a pattern that seems to lead to success.

A few key behaviours seem to improve our communication as leaders, as change agents and as human beings.

Looking Back, Looking Ahead

As the last page of the calendar streaks by with alarming speed, let's grab a few minutes to check the rear view mirror and invest some precious time to assess where we (and our organizations) have been.  Noticing what we've achieved in the past 12 months is an excellent way to launch the plans we make for the new year.

With our eyes firmly fixed on where we're headed, we often forget to celebrate or even notice what we've already accomplished. As a coach, I often ask clients to catch themselves doing something well and stop to savour the moment. I can, sometimes, forget to take my own advice.

Last week, I made time to do that, as I joined with a friend and fellow solopreneur to refine our business plans and set action priorities for 2008. Our first activity was to make a note of what we'd each achieved. At her suggestion, we also listed the names of people who had helped us get there.